What do you do for a living?

People who had job titles and business cards could say easily where they worked and what they did for a living, but those who worked for themselves, doing things of a complicated nature, learned over time that it was not worth the trouble of supplying an explanation if its only purpose was to make small talk. Better to just go directly to airline travel.

~ Neal Stephenson in Reamde

Neal Stephenson is my favorite author. I love the way he blends technology, historic events and deeply descriptive prose to tell compelling stories. Check out his books if you enjoy post cyberpunk sci-fi. The quote above made me laugh because I often find it difficult to describe what I do to people I meet.

When first meeting someone the first question normally asked is “So, what do you do?”
It is terribly cliche, and possibly bordering on bad manners, but what the person answers gives a context for where that person is coming from and what their interests are.

Some of my usual answers when someone asks me what I do are:

  • Web developer*
  • Software developer
  • Plugin Builder
  • Digital tentmaker

*I am trying to get away from “web developer” because then I’ll get the response “Oh! You design websites? I need a website…”  To which I uncomfortably respond, “Well, no I don’t design websites. And I don’t do client work. And most of the people I know won’t build you a site for your small budget.” I find those conversations very difficult to get out of so I try to avoid mentioning the web.

What do you say when someone asks you what you do? How do you explain your work?

Don’t Count Other People’s Money

I don’t remember when I first heard the phrase “Don’t count other people’s money,” but it’s a phrase I tell myself often and something my wife and I keep in mind when trying to figure out people’s motivation for making a large purchase, making a business decision, or choosing a career move.

When it comes to the state of other people’s finances or of the finances of a business that’s not ours we don’t have the whole picture. It’s rude to make assumptions and offer unsolicited advice.

Don’t count your friend’s money

If a friend comes up and says “Look at this new computer I bought!” they aren’t asking you to remind them that they are unemployed and living in their mother’s basement. They are looking for approval and admiration of their purchase. It would be a different situation if the friend asked “Hey, I’m thinking of buying this computer, do you think this makes sense for me?” That represents an open door to discussion. I’d then dig deeper and try to get more details about their situation to help them make a wise decision.

We have a very unique position as Financial Peace University leaders where people have paid money to attend and give up their free time to attend. They will often ask questions and through the course of the discussion time we are able to give guidance on their financial decisions. The advice we give is prefaced with the phrase “If I were in your shoes…” At the end of the day the person asking will need to live with the consequences of their decision.

Don’t count a company’s money

Recently the company I work for changed the pricing of their products. The reasoning behind the change was explained to customers in a blog post and further clarified in the comment section. (Note: I’m not interested in debating that decision here I’m just using it as an example.)

Several customers were vocal in their disapproval of the change and several showed their support of the move. Most of the complaints were civil and legitimate, but there were a few people who took the opportunity to (poorly) estimate the financials of the company and offer advice on a direction to take.

The comments went something like: “You probably make $X per year, so you should spend $Y amount on salaries and on keeping things exactly the same to make me happy. See how simple it was for me to solve this problem in a blog comment for you? I deserve something free.”

These misguided individuals had me shaking my head in disbelief. They have no grasp on the intricacies of running a very large software company and yet they were trying to impose their will. The advice wasn’t asked for so it was a ridiculous exchange.

It was just another example you shouldn’t count other people’s money.  People and businesses are going to do what they want.  If they ask you for advice then take that golden opportunity to try to be useful.

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Mid-year Project Cleanup

It’s the middle of the year and a great time to evaluate the goals that were set at the beginning of the year.  Enough things have changed in the past six months that some goals aren’t relevant anymore, and others have grown in relevance. I’m taking a few days of vacation this week I’ll be spending time cleaning up my project and task list. I use a Trello board to organize my projects and it has become a little unkept over the past few months. I’m going to go through each board and card to remove or refine the next steps.

What am I working on

I’m going to be redesigning (yes, I’m designing *gasp*) my Grow Development site into a WordPress theme running WooCommerce.  I’m still going to sell Magento plugins, but I spend the majority of my time in WordPress these days so I’m normalizing all of my site platforms to WordPress.

Each site I maintain will get some attention and freshening up. I’m going to setup auto backups and other monitoring that I’ve been meaning to do for a while.

I will also be retiring a few ideas that I’ve worked on over the past six months. When it comes to side projects I’m going to start working on one project at a time. I’ve wasted too much time by splitting up my attention in several places.

Plugin maintenance and new features

I will also be cleaning up the code in my  premium plugins and adding new planned features. I’ve gotten great feedback from customers on things they would like to see in a few of the plugins so I have a clear direction on that.

Blog drafts cleanup

In an effort to streamline content creating I am going to clear out all drafts from WP installs and move them to Google docs so I can have them in one place that can be shared with other people. In the past I’ve started drafts in the WP dashboard, in a Google doc, in my notebook, or in a text file on my computer. I’m going to put everything into one place so that when it is time to write I will know where I am with all my different drafts.

Here’s to a restful and productive Fourth of July week!

Have you ever taken vacation time and spent it on side projects instead of relaxation and recreation?

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